4 0 2

402 days. 402 (plus or minus… mostly minus) posts.

Category: Philosophy

Day 28: Still Sun

Yesterday was many things. The winter solstice. The end of a long and sad week. The beginning of a cheery and spirited season.

Solstice. Sol—sun. Sistere—stand. The sun stands still.

During the winter solstice, the sun gives us our distance and stands still on the other side of the world. It barely rises, blinks and then sinks. Somewhere around December 21, the sun reaches its southern-most distance from the celestial equator and is closest to its southern-most Earthlings. In the north, we feel the darkness.

Then, slowly, the sun begins to ascend again and we prepare to start fresh and greet the light.

If we aren’t paying attention, I think we experience this shift as holiday cheer. In reality, we are incredibly connected to the movement of our universe. However tiny they are, our cells respond to light and dark, ebb and flow. We carry the history of creation in our bodies. As Carl Sagan once put it, “We are made of starstuff.”

The danger of attributing our feelings of mirth and togetherness solely to the holidays is that they tend to disappear once the new year has begun. As the January commercials for fitness centers describe it, we experience a little post-holiday letdown. But—what if we keep noticing the light instead of focusing on the holiday bustle? What if we take a deep breath every morning and thank the sun for coming back? What if we smile every evening and greet the darkness like a quiet, warm friend?

If we get too wound up in stuff and events and obligations, we miss the experience of being alive amidst a living universe. The solstice is the perfect opportunity to reconnect.

Sometimes, a little distance from the light can be very illuminating. (Hey-oh!)

BenchThis photograph of the Oregon coast was taken by my lovely mother right around the 2010 winter solstice.

Day 25: What is that smell?

And here I thought I didn’t have anything to write about today.

In the midst of a very hard, tragic and thought-provoking week for everyone across America, today I lament something mundane.

Here goes.

Last night, my landlord installed a holiday plug-in air freshener in the laundry room. I found it this morning. It’s full of shiny red liquid and smells like some kind of powerful cinnamon toxin that could crawl up your nose and maniacally domesticate your brain.

It’s pretty smelly.

Why are we (the giant society “we”) so against smelling the actual smells of our environments? What are we afraid of? Especially in the laundry room, where things are clean and fluffy? I realize many people use perfumed and dyed detergents, but most of my neighbors use the au-natural stuff and the room smells delightful! I’d much rather know if my space is dirty than mask it with a smell that reeks (literally) of chemical intervention.

Perhaps you’re thinking, “Listen. I have three cats and a stinky kid. I need my air fresheners.” I understand. I really do. But how grossed out are you by the Febreze commercials where people unknowingly sit in filth and smell scents like “lilac, “citrus” and “wispy white curtains?” (Also… What?) Unsuspecting people wearing blindfolds bury their noses in dirty couch cushions and are pleased to smell Febreze. The whole thing feels terribly wrong.

That said, at least Febreze is being honest about what they offer. They’re basically saying, “Don’t worry if your home is disgusting. Just spray our product and blindfold your guests. They’ll think they’re sitting in a botanical garden and you’ll be the best host ever.”

Sigh. One day, my heroic effort to unplug every air freshener in the building will pay off.

Day 22: Beautiful Earth

Sometimes (especially in sad and confusing times), it helps to be reminded of Earth’s beauty. This planet existed before we got here and it will be here when we’re gone. For now, we get to see and experience it from a huge variety of vantage points.

Last month, NASA released “Earth as Art,” a 158-page book celebrating “the patterns, shapes, colors and textures of the land, oceans, ice and atmosphere.” It’s beautiful. The satellites providing the imagery captured light and patterns not visible by the naked human eye.

NASA has made a free e-book of “Earth as Art” available for download. Get it here. Have an iPad? There’s an app for that. And, you can peruse the NASA Earth site for more incredible imagery and information.

Picture 1

Day 21: Tell Me

Today, Om Shanti.

Here is a poem by Mary Oliver:

Wild Geese
By Mary Oliver

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
For a hundred miles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting—
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

Day 19: The Apocalyptic Skirt

My TV antenna doesn’t pick up anything other than the ION Network, so unless I’m in the mood to watch Rebound or three hours of Cold Case, I don’t watch much television (that’s not to say I don’t take full advantage of my Netflix account). So, when my Facebook newsfeed blew up last night with posts about Kanye West’s skirt at the 12-12-12 Concert for Sandy relief, I had no idea why.

This morning, I did some research. Yes, West wore a skirt. Yes, it was made of black leather. Yes, he wore leather leggings underneath. And although I love my Facebook friends dearly, I don’t know why it was a big deal.

Women wear pants. Dogs wear jackets. Guys can wear skirts.

Frankly, I’m not sure why West even bothered with the leggings. Maybe it was cold at the show.

A few months ago, I read a story in the Huffington Post about a father who wears a skirt in solidarity with his dress-wearing five-year-old son. Nils Pickert determined that his son needed a role model who didn’t succumb to “fluffy gender roles.”

It’s likely that West and Pickert are similar only in that they’ve experienced the awesomeness of skirts, and that they don’t employ the same reasons for their choices. Making a fashion statement is ultimately different than sticking up for a kid who wears what he wants. But both situations bring up the same questions for me. Why is this news? Why do we care? Why do we have to identify clothing as feminine or masculine?

Unless a clothing item is somehow dangerous (a blazer ablaze?), if you like it, you get to wear it.